Be it any relationship, it is all about giving love and respect and in a way, expecting to receive too. It is never a one-way traffic but a two way. The more you trust your partner, the stronger the bond gets. He’s your man (a human) and is bound to mess up sometime in life. Forgiving and forgetting the mistakes will lead to more trust and in short, a healthy happy relationship. People often cannot manage to forgive easily and keep the grudges in the heart, ultimately leading to weakening of the trust. Here are some strong tips to help you build trust in your relationship and in your man too!
Let him plan things:
Trust is all about imparting it to others. Let him be responsible and plan small things from the start say deciding for a restaurant for you two to dine peacefully or plan a destination for your next vacation trip! Once, he decides the restaurant, which will be better to go with you than his friends or decides the romantic destination to enjoy with you rather a youngster place with friends, you will start trusting and relying on him more for bigger decisions too. That is when you will consider and respect his decisions.
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Show him the true you:
Relationship is not about just telling his flaws but even showing him the true you by sharing the odd even, like your weakness or insecurities. This way you not only accept him as he is but also let him accept the real you. You will be highly comfortable in a relationship with him when you know he won’t leave you for your stupid habit or you being bed head. Being comfortable in a bond is very necessary even for bigger life goals and family issues too!
Stop being Judgmental:
Support him rather than pinpoint him when he upfront tells you his mistakes. Make him feel accepted and promote his confidence by not taking out flaws. This is the time when you should take the chance to strengthen the relationship, but supporting him and boosting his morale. And if you judge trust us, next time he will think 1000 times before sharing with you anything.
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Keep up with your promises:
Be accountable and show him you are a trustworthy person. The more you give and gain trust, the more you can expect the same from your partner in a relationship. If he requests you to see his favorite match with him, show him you are interested before if pleads before you. If he shares with you some big secret, make it a point you don’t share with your family or friends whatsoever it may be.
Be who you are in front of others too:
Be yourself and you will rock in a new relationship. If you try to be yourself in front of him, but something else in front of his parents, he is sure to judge what else can you hide and be a doubled faced person. Stop worrying who will think what and just be you to have the best relationships ever.
Either take his side or be diplomatic:
The right key to happiness in any discussion or argument – either take his side or try to be diplomatic. Make this the mantra to lead life whenever you are in doubt. Sometime all he demands is your support. And when you think your guy is wrong, rather than being blunt and rude, being diplomatic is good sometimes as it doesn’t hurt him and later you can discuss with him in private.
Maintaining secrets and leading to curiosity are two dangerous things in a relationship. A Relationship is all about trust and understanding. If the secrecy comes in, things become worse too. Leaving your phone with a lock code or not letting him/her touch your phone intuits curiosity within the partner. Tell him why you have kept the lock code or why you telling him not to touch the phone now as you expecting some business call. But don’t create a secret like situation.
Guys and girls, relationship is a beautiful bond, but little stupidity or immaturity can ruin it totally. Handle things calmly and show love towards your partner and handle things with not only heart but brains too! Only then, you will be successful in the relationship you indulge in making it a happy start to life in case of marriage.
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By Khushboo Goel